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Thursday, October 03, 2013
Brother Elias: Soulmate to Saint Francis of Assisi?
[Love between St. Francis of Assisi and Brother Elias of Cortona is highlighted in this article. For more info, see "New info on Francis of Assisi’s queer side revealed."]
By Kevin Elphick
The earliest companion of Francis, a man whom Francis “loved more than any other because he was the same age” and because of “the great familiarity of their mutual affection…” is quickly written out of all but the earliest biographies and becomes fully lost and cleansed from later biographies. There is reason for suspicion about his removal from the story of Francis as the officially sanctioned image of St. Francis “the Saint” grew more widely circulated in the Medieval Church.
One possible candidate for Francis' first, unnamed companion is Brother Elias. The noted Franciscan historian, John Moorman, puts forward this supposition in his book, A History of the Franciscan Order (Chicago: Franciscan Herald Press, 1988. p. 96). In Celano's First Life of Francis, Br. Elias is not overtly named until Chapter 25, with no introduction or description, as if he is a character in the narrative already previously introduced. And yet, in spite of seemingly appearing only by Chapter 25, Elias is one of "three other historical figures [which] find an honored place within the pages" of Celano's work (St. Clare and Pope Gregory are the other two; Francis of Assisi - The Saint: Early Documents, NY: New City Press, 1999; p. 173). If the important figure of Br. Elias has already appeared in Chapter 3, it is more cohesive to the narrative when he reappears in Chapter 25 wherein the text [re]introduces him [again ?] with Francis "on another occasion and brother Elias was with him..."
The intimacy of Francis' relationship with Elias is described as "the one he [Francis] chose for the role of mother to himself." (Second Book, Chapter 4)
After Peter Catanii, Elias is one of the earliest Minister Generals of the Order. Before his death, Francis singles out Elias and intones a unique blessing over him. Upon his deathbed, Francis requests that the chapter from the Gospel of John be read to him (in which the Beloved Disciple is first introduced), and "This was the very gospel his minister [Elias] had planned to read. (Celano, Chapter 8) Celano sets up this scene by reminding readers that Elias was the one whom Francis "loved with great affection." The Latin here, "diligebat," is the same verb for love used in the Latin Vulgate for Jesus' love of the Beloved Disciple (Jn. 13:23)
At his death, Elias writes a letter to the Franciscan community, to share the distressing news of Francis' passing. Yet in this letter Elias describes it as "a loss for all, yet it is a trial singularly my own." He writes: "I sigh... My groans gush forth... what I dreaded has happened to me..." That this death is personalized for Elias is explicit. Elias remembers Francis as one who "carried us in his arms like lambs..."
Elias continues with praise of Francis' body itself. His letter betrays a clear intimacy he knew with Francis' body: "...our brother... bearing in his body... His hands and feet...front and back revealing the scars... His side...often emitted blood...No part of his body was without great suffering...His limbs… marvelously soft and pliable...turned this way and that..." Clearly Elias is writing from a personal and physical intimacy with Francis.
Interestingly, it is St. Bonaventure, the fifth successor to Elias as Minister General of the Order, who writes Elias out of Francis' official biographies. Bonaventure orders all earlier biographies of Francis to be destroyed. He then authors two "official" biographies of Francis and removes all mention of Francis' earliest, first companion. While he includes two episodes of Elias' role in Francis' life, Bonaventure does not name him, whereas other early friars are explicitly named. In describing Francis' blessing which he extended prior to his death, Bonaventure removes Elias as the recipient, and instead describes the blessing as being given generally to the friars "sitting around him." Subsequent biographies eventually adopt a trajectory openly hostile to the depiction of Elias.
However, notably, St. Clare, another intimate companion of Francis and contemporary of Francis, gives an affirmation of Elias in the strongest possible language. She writes to Blessed Agnes: "In all of this, follow the counsel of our venerable Father, our Brother Elias, the Minister General... Prize it beyond the advice of the others and cherish it as dearer to you than any gift."
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Postscript: Readers who want to explore long-standing critiques of Brother Elias can read Jon Sweeney's 2016 book, “ The Enthusiast: How the Best Friend of Francis of Assisi Almost Destroyed What He Started.”
However, given both St. Francis & St. Clare's strong advocation of Brother Elias, (a point which Sweeney readily concedes), we would be left with the unsatisfactory conclusion that they were poor judges of character, a trait incompatible with founding multiple, new religious communities. In his book, Sweeney is left concluding that "a close childhood familiarity between Francis and Elias would go a long way toward explaining the strange intimacies and complications in their relationship later as men." (p. 28)
Sweeney appears to lack imagination when trying to explain Francis and Elias' "intimacies" with each other, seemingly forgetting that Francis was able to publicly disavow his childhood, birth family and its attachments. Childhood nostalgia did not seem to be a motivating force for him. Readers would do well to read Giulia Barone's article, "Brother Elias Revisited" (Greyfriars Review, Vol. 13; 1999) to obtain a more balanced portrait of Elias, set in an historical context and explaining later factions need to rewrite Elias' story and character according to their own political agendas.
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Kevin Elphick is a Franciscan scholar and a supervisor on a suicide prevention hotline in New York. He wrote a thesis on “Gender Liminality in the Franciscan Sources” for a master’s degree in Franciscan studies from St. Bonaventure University in New York.
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This post is part of the GLBT Saints series by Kittredge Cherry at the Jesus in Love Blog. Saints, martyrs, mystics, prophets, witnesses, heroes, holy people, humanitarians, deities and religious figures of special interest to lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) and queer people and our allies are covered on appropriate dates throughout the year.
Top image credit: Portrait of Brother Elias at the Baptismal font where St. Francis was christened in the Cathedral of San Rufino in Assisi. (Photo by Kevin Elphick)
Tuesday, October 01, 2013
Queer Creation in art: Who says God didn’t create Adam and Steve?
"Adam and Steve in Hawaii" by Tony de Carlo, 2013
(This post was written for the Queer Theology Synchroblog 2013.)
Who says God didn’t create Adam and Steve? Artist Tony De Carlo affirms the goodness of same-sex love by painting the original gay couple.
He reimagines the Biblical creation story from a queer viewpoint. It’s visual theology in response to those who oppose LGBT rights with the foolish argument that “God made Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve.”
De Carlo has done more than 20 paintings of Adam and Steve as the original gay couple. I am posting some of them today for the annual Queer Theology Synchroblog. The theme this year is “Queer Creation.” A synchroblog is when a group of people all write about the same topic on the same day and post it to their personal blogs. We are creating our own queer versions of the creation myth.
De Carlo is a native of Los Angeles, now living in Savannah, Georgia. Raised Catholic, he started painting religious subjects to counteract the church’s demonization of LGBT people. His paintings confront the hypocrisy of the church, which has a long history of homoerotic images but condemns homosexuality. His work is exhibited regularly in museums and galleries throughout the United States.
Watch the relationship between Adam and Steve unfold -- usually with the snake and forbidden fruit from the creation story in Genesis.
“Adam Y Steve” by Tony De Carlo
“Adam And Steve In Eden” by Tony De Carlo
"Adam and Yves" by Tony de Carlo
“Adam and Steve, Ants and Bees” by Tony de Carlo, 2013
"Domestic Life of Adam and Steve" by Tony de Carlo
"Adam and Steve and Child" by Tony de Carlo, 2013
"Adam and Steve on the Farm" by Tony de Carlo
“Adam and Steve and the Banana Tree” by Tony De Carlo
“Adam and Steve in 14 Countries” by Tony De Carlo shows them on an island made of flags from the countries that recognized marriage equality when he painted it earlier this year.
For more on Tony De Carlo and his art, see my previous post:
Gay saints, Adam & Steve, and marriage equality art affirms LGBT love: Tony De Carlo Interview.
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Check out the other entries
in the Queer Theology Synchroblog
Queering Our Reading of the Bible by Chris Henrichsen
Queer Creation in art: Who says God didn’t create Adam and Steve? by Kittrdge Cherry
Of The Creation of Identity (Also the Creation of Religion) by Colin & Terri
God, the Garden, & Gays: Homosexuality in Genesis by Brian G. Murphy, for Queer Theology
Created Queerly–Living My Truth by Casey O’Leary
Creating Theology by Fr. Shannon Kearns
Initiation by Blessed Harlot
B’reishit: The Divine Act of Self-Creation by Emily Aviva Kapor
Queer Creation: Queering the Image of God by Alan Hooker
Queer Creation by Ric Stott
Eunuch-Inclusive Esther–Queer Theology 101 by Peterson Toscano
Valley of Dry Bones by Jane Brazelle
Queer Creation: Queer Angel by Tony Street
The Great Welcoming by Anna Spencer
Queer Creation by Billy Flood
The Mystery of an Outlandishly Queer Creation by Susan Cottrell
We’ve Been Here All Along by Brian Gerald Murphy
God Hirself: A Theology by T. Thorn Coyle
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Related links:
TonyDeCarlo.com
Tony De Carlo on Facebook
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This post is part of the Artists series by Kittredge Cherry at the Jesus in Love Blog. The series profiles artists who use lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender (LGBT) and queer spiritual and religious imagery.
Copyright © Kittredge Cherry. All rights reserved.
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Monday, September 30, 2013
Rumi: Poet and Sufi mystic inspired by same-sex love
Rumi and Shams together in a detail from “Dervish Whirl” by Shahriar Shahriari (RumiOnFire.com)
Rumi is a 13th-century Persian poet and Sufi mystic whose love for another man inspired some of the world’s best poems and led to the creation of a new religious order, the whirling dervishes. His birthday is today (Sept. 30).
For a new version of this article, click this link to Qspirit.net:
Rumi: Poet and Sufi mystic inspired by same-sex love
With sensuous beauty and deep spiritual insight, Rumi writes about the sacred presence in ordinary experiences. His poetry is widely admired around the world and he is one of the most popular poets in America. One of his often-quoted poems begins:
If anyone asks you
how the perfect satisfaction
of all our sexual wanting
will look, lift your face
and say,
Like this.*
The homoeroticism of Rumi is hidden in plain sight. It is well known that his poems were inspired by his love for another man, but the queer implications are seldom discussed. There is no proof that Rumi and his beloved Shams of Tabriz had a sexual relationship, but the intensity of their same-sex love is undeniable.
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“Rumi of Persia” by Robert Lentz |
His father died when Rumi was 25 and he inherited a position as teacher at a madrassa (Islamic school). He continued studying Shariah (Islamic law), eventually issuing his own fatwas (legal opinions) and giving sermons in the local mosques. Rumi also practiced the basics of Sufi mysticism in a community of dervishes, who are Muslim ascetics similar to mendicant friars in Christianity.
On Nov. 15, 1244 Rumi met the man who would change his life: a wandering dervish named Shams of Tabriz (Shams-e-Tabrizi or Shams al-Din Muhammad). He came from the city of Tabriz in present-day Iranian Azerbaijan. It is said that Shams had traveled throughout the Middle East asking Allah to help him find a friend who could “endure” his companionship. A voice in a vision sent him to the place where Rumi lived.
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Meeting of Rumi and Shams 16th-17th century folio (Wikimedia Commons) |
Rumi and Shams soon became inseparable. They spent months together, lost in a kind of ecstatic mystical communion known as “sobhet” -- conversing and gazing at each other until a deeper conversation occurred without words. They forgot about human needs and ignored Rumi’s students, who became jealous. When conflict arose in the community, Shams disappeared as unexpectedly as he had arrived.
Rumi’s loneliness at their separation led him to begin the activities for which he is still remembered. He poured out his soul in poetry and mystical whirling dances of the spirit.
Eventually Rumi found out that Shams had gone to Damascus. He wrote letters begging Shams to return. Legends tell of a dramatic reunion. The two sages fell at each other’s feet. In the past they were like a disciple and teacher, but now they loved each other as equals. One account says, “No one knew who was lover and who the beloved.” Both men were married to women, but they resumed their intense relationship with each other, merged in mystic communion. Jealousies arose again and some men began plotting to get rid of Shams.
One winter night, when he was with Rumi, Shams answered a knock at the back door. He disappeared and was never seen again. Many believe that he was murdered.
Rumi grieved deeply. He searched in vain for his friend and lost himself in whirling dances of mourning. One of his poems hints at the his emotions:
Dance, when you’re broken open.
Dance, if you’ve torn the bandage off.
Dance in the middle of the fighting.
Dance in your blood.
Dance, when you’re perfectly free.
Rumi danced, mourned and wrote poems until the pressure forged a new consciousness. “The wound is the place where the Light enters you,” he once wrote. His soul fused with his beloved. They became One: Rumi, Shams and God. He wrote:
Why should I seek? I am the same as he.
His essence speaks through me.
I have been looking for myself.
After this breakthrough, waves of profound poetry flowed out of Rumi. He attributed more and more of his writings to Shams. His literary classic is a vast collection of poems called “The Works of Shams of Tabriz.” The Turkish government refused to help with translation of the last volume, which was finally published in 2006 as The Forbidden Rumi: The Suppressed Poems of Rumi on Love, Heresy, and Intoxication
Rumi went on to live and love again, dedicating poems to other beloved men. His second great love was the goldsmith Saladin Zarkub. After the goldsmith’s death, Rumi’s scribe Husan Chelebi became Rumi’s beloved companion for the rest of his life. Rumi died at age 66 after an illness on Dec. 17, 1273. Soon his followers founded the Mevlevi Order, known as the whirling dervishes because of the dances they do in devotion to God.
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Related links:
Rumi and Shams: A Love of Another Kind (Wild Reed)
Ramesh Bjonnes on Rumi and Shams as Gay Lovers (Wild Reed)
Another Male's Love Inspired Persia's Mystic Muse (GayToday.com)
Love Poems of Rumi at Rumi.org
Rumi quotes at Goodreads.com
5 Queer Couples in Islamic History (islamandhomosexuality.com)
*“Like This” is quoted from The Essential Rumi
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This post is part of the GLBT Saints series by Kittredge Cherry at the Jesus in Love Blog. Saints, martyrs, mystics, heroes, holy people, deities and religious figures of special interest to lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) and queer people and our allies are covered on appropriate dates throughout the year.
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Saturday, September 28, 2013
Good (Gay?) King Wenceslas
St. Wenceslaus and Podiven
By Lewis Williams, SFO. © www.trinitystores.com
There’s good reason to believe that Good King Wenceslas was gay. Yes, the king in the Christmas carol. His feast day is today (Sept. 28).
Saint Wenceslaus I (907–935) was duke of Bohemia (now the Czech Republic). The carol "Good King Wenceslas" is based on a legend about Wenceslaus and his loyal page Podiven. According to the story, it was a bitterly cold night when they went out to give alms to the poor on the Feast of St. Stephen, Dec. 26. Podiven could not walk any farther on his bare, frozen feet, so Wenceslas urged him to follow in his footsteps. His footprints in the snow stayed miraculously warm, allowing the pair to continue safely together.
Many details in the Christmas carol are pious fiction, but the king and his page are both grounded in historical truth. The following is based partly on research from Dennis O’Neill, author of “Passionate Holiness
The earliest accounts of Wenceslaus’ life mention his page -- but not the woman who supposedly gave birth to his son in more recent versions. An account written in the late 10th or early 11th century describes the young man who was a “worthy page” and “chamber valet” to Wenceslaus.
It says that Wenceslaus used to wake his page in the middle of the night to join him in doing charitable works. The page is described as “a youth from among his valets who, of all his servants, was the most trustworthy in secret matters. The saint himself truly loved him during his lifetime.”
Wenceslaus was murdered in a coup by his brother at the door of a church on Sept. 28 in the year 935. The records say that Podiven “was often overcome by grief, sorrowing for days on end.” The brother also had Podiven killed to stop him from spreading stories of the saintly Wenceslaus. Both Wenceslaus and his beloved Podiven are buried at St. Vitus Cathedral in Prague.
The icon above was painted by Colorado artist Lewis Williams of the Secular Franciscan Order (SFO). He studied with master iconographer Robert Lentz and has made social justice a theme of his icons. It is dedicated to the memory of Father Larry Craig, a Chicago priest known for service to the Latino community and prison ministry. Before his death in 2006, Father Craig used to stand outside the Cook County Jail at night, giving sandwiches and bus passes to surprised inmates who had just been released. He served as the model for Podiven’s face in this icon.
May these facts warm your heart whenever you hear or sing the Christmas carol “Good King Wenceslas.”
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To read this post in Spanish / en español, go to Santos Queer:
San Venceslao I de Bohemia y Podiven: Venceslao, el buen rey (gay?)
To read this post in French / en français, visit Pays de Zabulon Un blog qui parle d'amour:
Saint Wenceslas et son ami
____This post is part of the GLBT Saints series by Kittredge Cherry at the Jesus in Love Blog. Saints, martyrs, mystics, prophets, witnesses, heroes, holy people, humanitarians, deities and religious figures of special interest to lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) and queer people and our allies are covered on appropriate dates throughout the year.
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Sunday, September 22, 2013
Tyler Clementi: Gay teen driven to suicide by bullies
“Tyler Clementi, JUMP!” by Louisa Bertman
Tyler Clementi (1992-2010) brought international attention to bullying-related suicide of LGBT youth by jumping to his death on this date (Sept. 22) in 2010.
Clementi’s highly publicized tragedy made him into a gay martyr whose untimely death put a public face on the problems of LGBT teenagers. His story sparked efforts to support LGBT youth, raise awareness of the harassment they face, and prevent suicide among queer young people. Another result is new legislation stiffening penalties for cyber harassment.
His parents once considered suing Rutgers over their son's death, but in February 2013 they announced that they were working with the university to form the Tyler Clementi Center at Rutgers. It sponsors conferences and academic research to help students make the transition to college. They also established the Tyler Clementi Foundation to promote acceptance of LGBT youth and more inclusive society.
Clementi was an 18-year-old freshman at Rutgers University in New Jersey when he was driven to suicide by his room mate's anti-gay cyber-bullying.
A talented violinist, Clementi came out to his parents as gay before leaving home for college. Three days before the suicide, Clementi’s room mate used a webcam to secretly record Clementi kissing another man in their dorm room and streamed the video live over the Internet. In messages posted online before he took his own life, Clementi told how he complained to authorities about the cyber-bullying and asked for a new room assignment. Then he jumped off the George Washington Bridge. It took a week to find his body.
The room mate, Dharum Ravi, also 18 at the time, was convicted on 15 counts, including invasion of privacy and bias intimidation, in connection with Clementi’s suicide. Ravi was sentenced to 30 days in jail; 3 years of probation; 300 hours of community service; fined $10,000; and ordered to undergo counseling on cyberbullying and alternate lifestyles. His accomplice, Molly Wei, avoided jail time by agreeing to testify against Ravi.
Anti-LGBT statements by public figures are also partly responsible for Clementi’s death. They created the hostile environment that drove Clementi to suicide. Artist Louisa Bertman emphasizes this point in her powerful ink illustration, “Tyler Clementi, JUMP!” She makes visible the hateful voices that may have been in Clementi’s mind. In her drawing, his head overflows with people urging him to jump. They are politicians as well as the actual students who bullied him. Their names are listed in a stark statement at the bottom of the drawing:
“Message brought to you by Sally Kern, Kim Meltzer, Nathan Deal, Carl Paladino, Newt Gingrich, Sarah Palin, Tom Emmer, Jeremy Walters, Rick Perry, Bob Vander Plaats, Dharun Ravi, and Molly Wei.”
Bertman, an artist based in Cambridge, Massachusetts, is known for her non-traditional portraits.
Clementi helped inspire the founding of the It Gets Better Project and Spirit Day. The It Get Better Project aims to stop suicide among LGBT teens with videos of adults assuring them that “it gets better.” Spirit Day, first observed on Oct. 20, 2010, is a day when people wear purple to show support for young LGBT victims of bullying.
Unfortunately Clementi’s experience is far from rare. Openly lesbian talk show host Ellen Degeneres spoke for many in a video message that put his suicide into context shortly after he died:
“I am devastated by the death of 18-year-old Tyler Clementi….Something must be done. This month alone, there has been a shocking number of news stories about teens who have been teased and bullied and then committed suicide; like 13-year-old Seth Walsh in Tehachapi, California, Asher Brown, 13, of Cypress, Texas and 15-year-old Billy Lucas in Greensberg, Indiana. This needs to be a wake-up call to everyone: teenage bullying and teasing is an epidemic in this country, and the death rate is climbing.”
Help is available right now from the Trevor Project, a 24-hour national help line for gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender and questioning teens. Contact them at 866 4U TREVOR or their website: thetrevorproject.org.
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Related links:
Tyler Clementi Foundation
Tyler Clementi Center at Rutgers
Day of Silence Prayer: Stop bullying God’s LGBTQ youth
A Brother's Pledge: Standing Up For Love by James Clementi (Believe Out Loud)
“Crisis: 40 Stories Revealing the Personal, Social, and Religious Pain and Trauma of Growing Up Gay in America” by Mitchell Gold and Mindy Drucker
“Queer: The Ultimate LGBT Guide for Teens” by Kathy Belge and Marke Bieschke
It Gets Better Project video by Kittredge Cherry
Image credit: Tyler Clementi’s webcam photo of himself (Wikimedia Commons)
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This post is part of the GLBT Saints series by Kittredge Cherry at the Jesus in Love Blog. Saints, martyrs, mystics, heroes, holy people, deities and religious figures of special interest to lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) and queer people and our allies are covered on appropriate dates throughout the year.
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